What do women want most out of a sexual relationship?

Main Points

• Pleasure/Satisfaction
• Commitment
• Control
• Security

A sexual relationship can be defined as: an emotional attachment that is bound by a stimulating interaction of both parties. Both parties (a man and a woman) form a union based off this agreement.

Women want Pleasure, Commitment, Control and Security. A woman’s passion yearns for the strength of a man; it comforts her when she can be embraced with love and care during sex. She wants to feel at her peek until she bursts her bubble (Climax), giving her total satisfaction.

A woman is very protective of her territory, she demands love and respect, but most of all commitment. Her partner must not have any one but her, she should not feel insecure or threatened by a third party, or else there will be problems in the relationship. Commitment is a truce that binds the relationship giving a woman reassurance that she can trust her partner.

A woman wants control of her man, she wants to be possessive of her property, her man must obey her, he must be loyal, and he must the submissive (both in and out of the bedroom). She wants her man to always be head over heals in love with her; she demands patience, attention and dedication from him.

Last but not least, a woman needs security; she has long term goals for the relationship; family, career and a home. She needs not only a lover, but a friend, a partner and a role model. A woman needs protection from an uncertain environment.

Women are fascinating creatures, though I am very attracted to them, I am rather confused by them; they have very high expectations from us, which sometimes can be deemed as unfair. They thirst for material gain and literally sacrifice anything in their paths just to get it. They let us feel inferior. They think that we want to use them so they are always on the defensive.

Not all women are like what I described, but I think women really want a control of the relationship.